Author: iamjinger

“Don’t skip past unpacking the pain before you get to the healing stage. You have to close the chapter before you can feel set free.” Jane: I listen to these words that A tell me. She’s an intuitive tarot reader and a friend. It makes sense. And I know what she’s trying to tell me. […]

Jinger: I’m sitting in Jane’s grandmother’s bedroom. There’s a picture of her grandmother probably from the 1950s, it’s the kind of portrait people would take in a studio. Her hair is permed right, and she has her signature lipstick on. Her bible is on the table that Jane is seated at. There’s a small layer […]

These days, I’ve been receiving messages to speak my truth. To express things I want to express, and not keep my creativity bound by fear. Marco reminded me a few days ago, it’s been almost 3 years…since I wrote. I’ve been writing in this blog yes, but not writing the story I want to write. […]

Many of us searching for a reason outside of this manic life sometimes come across the advice “vibrate higher”. You go to Bali, India, Koh Phangan or other spiritual hubs, and you experience a cacophony of people all chanting to go nowhere. After that brief awakening moment I experienced back in 2022, a deep curiosity […]

Time doesn’t operate in a linear fashion. The distinction between the knowledge and experience of this…..feels like you’re constantly waking from different dreams. You wake up so many times that waking up from one dream doesn’t bring you back to reality. What IS reality? After a while, you can’t help but wonder….wait – which is […]

There is no evil; there is only Karma. Dark karma is accumulated when we act upon our dark thoughts. That’s why it’s important to exert self control over our actions. Thoughts, more often than not, are uncontrollable. The mind works like a processor, letting the Self know what kind of emotions that events trigger in […]

1. The 5 tibetan rites 2. Gratitude journal 3. Visualization 4. Journalling 5. Walking meditation /Meditation

End of 2023, I started feeling a huge calling to be in Singapore more often. It was surprising because I didn’t think I would ever want to live in Singapore again. But the old Jane doesn’t really quite exist anymore, and I suppose I’ve healed quite alot of my relationship with Singapore. So when Mr […]

Notice how we speak about our trauma. We usually say X happened because Y chose to do this to me and since then, I’ve had to heal from what Y’s actions did to me. For the first 2 years, I narrated my divorce this way. The trauma was because my ex did this, his mistress […]

Have you ever flipped channels on the television really quickly before? Except, in this picture I’m trying to paint you, You are the main character of every show. And as you flip through the different channels, you immerse yourself into the main character of every show. Sometimes, you’re a hero, sometimes, the villain. Sometimes you’re […]